I have recently been asked to write about how I challenge my students to be persistent. A couple of little boys in my class come to mind.. Both of these boys are really smart and generally do very well but when challenged, they claim that they are stupid and both will say they hate the class and or the school. Although challenged in different ways; one socially and the other academically, they are very hard to get through to when they are so frustrated. I have learned that the best way to challenge them both to be persistent, is to offer words of encouragement. I have also noticed that what I do from there is different for both boys.
The student who struggles academically will usually shut down when he becomes so frustrated and I will have to allow him to move on to do something else for the time being. However, the next time I teach the same thing (it’s usually math with which he struggles), I give him separate problems that are slightly easier to encourage him by allowing him to see that he can do these math problems. At this point, I also give him and any of my other students who struggle with math, individualized help on the problems. Once I can see he feels he is able to do what I’m asking of him, I tell him that I knew he could do it. My thought on saying this is to reinforce that he is able to do what he sets his mind to and that he can be persistent.
The student who struggles socially will usually blow up when other students in the class don’t see things his way or if he feels like he’s in trouble-often a way he feels when my lead teacher or myself repeatedly ask him to stop talking. This happens frequently because this student is a verbal learner, which in itself isn’t bad, but combined with his very high-pitched and loud voice can be very challenging for himself, other students, and the teachers. I have learned that the best way to encourage this student to persist in the things that are difficult for him is letting him cool off and telling him that he is not in trouble but is still working on raising his hand when wanting to speak, as well as working on other classroom community agreements. I also ensure him that he is making improvements on these things but still needs a reminder now and then since he’s still learning.
I do think that challenging students to be persistent is important since the end result is that they build endurance. I think that one of the most important things a child can learn by building persistence is that they can do diffucult tasks, or at least tasks that when new, seemed difficult. The result of having experienced this is that they can meet tasks head on that seem difficult with the self-knowledge that they were able to do other tasks that once seemed difficult and now will give a go at the new task. I can see persistence as being a virtuous cycle, where students try new tasks and can enjoy being persistent often despite challenge. Persistence is important because it is helpful in all of life’s categories; challenging students to be persistent is really setting them up for a more successful future.